Is Cleansing/Fasting Just a Trendy Way to Starve?

Hey everyone!  I hope y’all had a chance to get out and enjoy this beautiful 65 degree February weather today.  I had a wonderful day with my best friends brunching and perusing around a bridal convention.  This was my first experience at one of these shindigs, and, to put it lightly, WHOA that was a lot of estrogen in one room!  However, I got a lot of great ideas, made some great contacts, and most importantly, gorged myself on delicious samples. Everything from appetizers to entrees to cakes, we tried it.  To say I was miserable on the way home would be an understatement-I had to unbutton my pants.  So tonight seemed like the perfect opportunity to start that mini-cleanse I’ve been debating on for awhile.  Cleanses and fasts are hotly debated topics in the health world.  A lot of people would say that depriving yourself of food in any manner is not healthy.  On the other hand, you have a lot of people who say fasting is a time tested cure-all for most of the body’s ailments.  So after extensive research, the following are MY opinions on the subject and MY diet.  I am not recommending you follow this advice as no two people are the same and you may have to consult with a professional.  So with that out of the way, here we go.

Let’s start with researching cleanses and fasts throughout history.  In recent years, many celebrities have come forward with their use of cleanses, more specifically, the Master Cleanse, or Lemonade diet.  The term Master Cleanse is practically synonymous with Beyonce for me, due to her famously using it to drop a drastic amount of weight for “Dream Girls.”  However, the Master Cleanse has been around since the 1940s, invented by Stanley Burroughs and published in the mid 1970s in a book under the same title.  Basically, it’s a juice fast where you live on warm lemonade, made with lemon juice, maple syrup and cayenne pepper for 10 days, then over the course of 3 days you re-introduce veggies and fruits and soups to your diet.  Mr.Burroughs recommends basically a vegan diet by frowning upon basically any meats or dairy products in a person’s day-to-day diet.  There have been plenty of other fasting diets over the course of the past century.  Slim Fast, grapefruit diet, juicing… the list goes on.  However, let’s go back further in history.  In every great religion there is documented use of fasting for spiritual purposes.  In the New Testament, within the books of Luke and Acts, fasting is often mentioned in relation to prayer or to clear the mind before making important decisions.  Likewise within Buddhism, the Buddha did not experience the great awakening until after fasting and meditation.  Muslims are most notoriously documented for their use of fasting during Ramadan, a month-long event where they refrain from eating or drinking between dawn and sunset.  I could go on for days listing each religion and their use of fasting but that would get boring and we need to move on.  So even FURTHER back in history, if you want to consider the diet of ancient man, they naturally practiced fasting because, well, they had no choice.  Hunters and gatherers had seasons of plenty and times where there was no food to be had.  Their bodies had to acclimate to storing all the food they could and efficiently distributing all their energy when food sources were scarce.

So, there is your history lesson for the day.  With all that being said, I have drawn my own conclusions on fasting.  First, I find short term fasting to be a safe and effective practice.  Performed in no more than 3-10 day increments, I find that cleansing and fasting can be a terrific way to become more in tune with your own body, shed nasty toxins that are weighing you down, and strengthen your own mind and will-power.  Long-term fasting to me seems stupid and wasteful.  Ancient man did not willingly go hungry for weeks at a time, nor should I.  That statement leads me to my second conclusion: I don’t believe in a full-blown, liquids-only, starvation fest.  Instead, I like to maintain small daily liquid cleanses in addition to a supremely clean diet to aid in a healthy body and weight loss.  For example, beginning tomorrow, I will start my morning with a Master Cleanse lemonade (8oz of warm water with 2T of pure lemon juice, 1T of pure maple syrup and a dash of cayenne pepper) within 10 mins of being up.  I have noticed that this practice helps me with waste elimination, something I struggle with due to my crippling IBS, which may be TMI but to be honest this is a horrible ailment that myself and millions of other people suffer with and deserves someone talking about it because it sucks.  Anyway, I’ll follow that with a very clean breakfast, a post-workout protein shake with added veggies and fruits, lunch of fish and rice or quinoa, then replace my 2nd snack with another Master Cleanse lemonade.  Dinner will be chicken with veggies.  At night prior to bed, a cup of organic senna tea (a natural herbal laxative).  I also will drink a bit of warm water with sea salt to also move those toxins out at some point during the day. The goal is for me to get my body as clean as possible, to alleviate any nasty crud I’ve picked up from working in a scummy bar, and to get rid of all the crap food I’ve eaten and re-set my internal system.  This type of cleansing seems much more manageable than a full-blown liquid fast.  For me personally, I workout far too much and work in a very physical job where I can’t function on ZERO calories.  Ideally I would like to incorporate yoga into my morning routine during this time. I am really bad about stretching and yoga can really help your body stretch and push bad things out and give you more of a sense of control over your own mind. However, I say that I would like to start doing yoga in the mornings like, once a week, so we will see how that goes.

I will update post-cleanse with an update.  If any of you have any tips or fasts you have performed yourself, let me know!  We can discuss!  Til then have a blessed day.

 

Happy New Year!

I’ve been MIA since OCTOBER and that is absolutely unacceptable.  Typical me to start something and slack off.  This is a good way for me to tackle one of my NY resolutions — to stick to things I start.  To be fair, the holidays came and went so quickly it all feels like a blur.  To recap:

In late October we had family photos made
In late October we had family photos made

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There was a lot of self reflection and comparisons made as to who I am now and how far I've come
There was a lot of self reflection and comparisons made as to who I am now and how far I’ve come

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Next came Halloween weekend!  My favorite holiday!
Next came Halloween weekend! My favorite holiday!
Mitch was Stone Cold Steve Austin haha!
Mitch was Stone Cold Steve Austin haha!
Medusa!
Medusa!

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I went to the gym in fancy pants
I went to the gym in fancy pants
Next came Thanksgiving
Next came Thanksgiving
Then we got a tree and decorated for Christmas
Then we got a tree and decorated for Christmas

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In mid-December we had our company Christmas party
In mid-December we had our company Christmas party
My dad had his 64th birthday
My dad had his 64th birthday
We had a party at my cousin's home for my Mother's side of the family
We had a party at my cousin’s home for my Mother’s side of the family
AND THEN IT WAS MY BIRTHDAY ON THE 21st!
AND THEN IT WAS MY BIRTHDAY ON THE 21st!
I got awesome gifts
I got awesome gifts

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Then it was finally Christmas Eve
Then it was finally Christmas Eve

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Which was when I received the best gift of all....
Which was when I received the best gift of all….
Mitch asked me to marry him!
Mitch asked me to marry him!
We celebrated with a delicious Christmas dinner on the 25th
We celebrated with a delicious Christmas dinner on the 25th
Gas got super cheap!
Gas got super cheap!
And a few nights ago, Ashton and I celebrated our annual NYE photo.  (top left 2012, bottom left 2013, right 2014)
And a few nights ago, Ashton and I celebrated our annual NYE photo. (top left 2012, bottom left 2013, right 2014)

2014 has been my best year to date.  As a person I have grown tremendously, and the people around me are a solid group of positive people who only enhance my quality of life.  I hope to get back on the wagon with my blogging and am setting a goal of 2x/wkly.  I hope to interact with you all soon and I hope you stay with me for this crazy year to come of work, the whirlwind of planning a wedding, weightloss, makeup, fashion, rants and raves, and of course food!

 

Chakra Balancing and Aura Repair….Just Goin’ In for a Tune-up

So this week I did something a little different.

I’ve been feeling really down in the dumps lately and can’t seem to pull out of it.  I am a firm believer in the power of positive thinking and usually when I get in these funks I can just take a moment to count all my blessings and pull right on out. 
But over the past month or two I’ve just felt like I’m poisoned inside my head and no matter what I do I can’t shake this negative energy.  I have been dealing with what I can only guess is anxiety, as in, there is a constant weight on my chest that makes me feel like something bad is going to happen or something is wrong.  I also have felt extremely lonely.  I attribute this to busy, conflicting schedules with Mitch and my friends.  I exist within a strange paradox in my life–in my job, I live the life and hours of the bar, which means my typical work-week is Friday through Tuesday, 9pm-4am.  However, my morals and extracurriculars no longer reflect that schedule and has become quite a bit more boring and traditional.  So the people I now share common interest with tend to live in a Monday through Friday, 8am-5pm world.  Because of that and Mitch’s new school schedule, I spend most of my days alone, only having personal interaction with people when I go into work and they are under the influence.  Sometimes it gets a little depressing. 

So with all that being said, I’ve just been down lately.  I am firmly against prescription medications like anti-depressants and mood elevators, and refuse to go that route.  (no offense to those who do take these, this is just my opinion and personal choice.)  On a whim and also as a sort of last resort, I paid a visit to a local shop downtown that sells a lot of holistic items and also is home to it’s own ‘spiritual center’ where they conduct everything from tarot readings to yoga classes.  On this particular day, they had a healer in the shop who was skilled in aura repair and balancing chakras. 

Well…..why not.  I decided to give it a whirl, even if I’m not a firm believer in all this stuff. 

I will stop here and kind of explain my religious and spiritual beliefs.  I usually do not speak about this sort of thing because I feel like your spiritual habits should be something personal for you and no one should be able to tell you you’re right or wrong.  But in the interest of this blog making sense, I suppose I should just briefly fill you in on my line of thinking.

I am not a religious person, so much as I am spiritual.  I believe there is a greater power out there, that there is a meaning to all this, this life, but I do not know what it is so I will not judge anyone on what THEY believe the meaning is.  What I DO know, is that energy is tangible.  You can use a device to measure the wavelength of my heartbeat, thus measuring my ENERGY.  So for me, if that energy gets imbalanced or tainted from being around more bad energy than good, then that’s probably gonna throw me out of whack.  And this is precisely why I decided to let a middle aged bald man in capri pants, covered in wiccan tattoos, conduct a chakra balance and aura repair on me.

(If you are unfamiliar with the term ‘chakra’ please familiarize yourself with the 7 basic chakras here . )

The reverend, ordained by the Church of Divine Light, was a very nice man, who spent no less than 45 minutes explaining his techniques to me, from the tools he was going to use, (everything from chimes and bells to oils and rocks and music.) to the placement of his hands so I could be as comfortable as possible.  Considering that I’m no idiot, being in a closed room with an unfamiliar man who is attempting to put me in a meditative trance and perhaps touch my chakras, you can go ahead and guess that during this session I never fully let my guard down, as I was ready at a moments notice to issue a swift kick to the family jewels if he tried any funny business.  After a lengthy introduction, I laid down on my back on a massage table.  He then placed various precious gems, crystals and minerals around and on my body and turned on some soothing music.  He then walked around my body with a bell and chanting a mantra while counting backward from 10, trying to guide me into a meditative state.  After I was relaxed (somewhat) he then went into his own head, placing his hands on or several inches above various areas of my body. 

Ok, I don’t wanna sound like a crazy person.  But either this guy really has something going on as far as transferring energy, OR he just has a medical condition that makes his hands boiling hot.  Because even at 6″ away from my body, I could feel the heat from his hands, like he was holding a space heater over me or something!

This went on for about 35 minutes before he slowly asked me to come back to the world of the living.  For homework, he recommended I get a small bundle of sage and start smudging all the negative energy off of me every time I leave work.  I left the building a skeptic, but only $25 poorer so I wasn’t too upset. 

Cut to yesterday morning when I woke up.  The first thing I noticed is that I was SORE. I have been at a stand-still in the gym for like 2 months and no matter what I do I can’t get sore.  Before I went to my chakra balancing session, I had done the same glute workout I’ve done for the past 2 months so it was nothing new.  But when I got out of bed I could hardly walk to the bathroom I was so sore.  Also, my honey and I actually had some intimate times early that morning, which I could count on one hand the number of times that has happened.  And overall I was just in a gee-golly terrific mood. 

Now maybe this is all mental.  Maybe the soreness is just a matter of coincidence.  Or maybe there’s something to this energy thing.  All I know is, I feel lighter, more positive.  Work wasn’t an act of torture last night.  So I’m gonna go back.  Maybe take advantage of some yoga classes at my gym.  I don’t see any harm in taking an hour of relaxation and reflection for myself each week.  And if there is some positive benefits to this aura repair and chakra balancing, then all the better.

On that note, I hope you all have a blessed and wonderful weekend. And get out and try something new!  You never know, it might just change your life.