Is this what it’s like to have “haterz?”

I’m just gonna throw this quick little update out there because not only are my feelers hurt, but im also honestly pissed off.  And now I’m even more livid because I felt forced into using the term “hater.”  But what else do you call someone who pisses on another’s parade??  Since I have gotten my life together and started losing weight and making improvements in my life, I have had a few people who have made my life their priority and decided to tell me that what I was doing was unhealthy or abnormal.  Or “unreasonable.”  I have one question–where were you people for 10 years when I spent 6 nights a week in a bar, in an unhealthy mutually abusive relationship, overweight, and smoking a pack of cigarettes a day??  Not one person except my mother ever questioned  my behavior then when I was the most self-destructive human being I’ve ever known.  Now I have people coming out of the woodwork questioning my actions, saying that it’s unreasonable for me to spend the time I do at the gym, or that I eat clean and that’s not normal.  NOW people are “worried” about me.

I don’t need to justify my life but just for fun here ya go.  It has taken me 2 months to lose 10 lbs.  I consume 1200-1500 calories/day.  I workout 6 days a week for 1.5-2 hours.  30 minutes of that is HIIT cardio and the other time is spent on weight training.  I eat organically as much as I can afford and I go out on the town about once a month.  If this is an unhealthy lifestyle then so be it.  I feel better than I ever have.  Look better than I ever have.  Have money in the bank and someone great at home.  If you don’t like it, I honestly don’t care.  I’ve never been one to try to please anyone but myself and I don’t intend on changing that any time soon.

I'll take the girl on the left over the one on the right any day.
I’ll take the girl on the right over the one on the left any day.

3 thoughts on “Is this what it’s like to have “haterz?”

  1. I honestly can’t say why improving ones self brings out the haters. I can’t see one that that you do that is anything but healthy. Since when is eating organic and exercising unhealthy? Keep doing what you’re doing and let them hate.

  2. You look great and I LOVE how positive you are!! People are jealous. Unfortunately most low life people get satisfaction out of putting others down. People that lose weight slowly are much more likely to keep it off. You have had a lifestyle change for the better, and I’m so happy for you! You are inspiring to me.

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